人性的优点

如果你有担忧的问题，就应用威力 卡瑞尔的万灵公式，做好以下三件事： 第一，问你自己“可能发生的最坏情况是什么？” 第二，如果你必须接受的话，就做好准备接受它。 第三，镇定地想办法改善最坏的情况。 > 当我们强迫自己面对最坏情况，并且先从精神上接受它时，我们就能够权衡所以可能的情形，使我们可以集中精力解决问题。 >你们要愿意承担这种情况，因为接受即成事实，是客服随之而来的任何不幸的第一个步骤。 >当我们也做好了接受任何最坏的情况的准备时，我们就不会再损失什么，也就是说一切都可以重新获得。

一个人如果能够意识到自己是什么样的人，那么，他很快就会知道自己应该成为什么样的人。但是，他首先得在思想上 相信自己的重要，很快，在现实生活中，他也会觉得自己很重要。对一个人来说，如果能充分肯定自己的能力。那么，他很快就会拥有巨大的力量。

Our trouble is not ignorance, but inaction

Our main business is not to see what lies dimly at a distance, but to do what lies clearly at hand

By all means take thought for the tomorrow, yes, careful thought and planning and preparation. But have no anxiety.

Whether in war or peace, the chief difference between good thinking and bad thinking is this: good thinking deals with causes and effects and leads to logical, constructive planning; bad thinking frequently leads to tension and nervous breakdowns.

One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon -- instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.

Today is our most precious possession. It is our only sure possession.

Do something about it. Unless we carry out our action, all our fact-finding and analysis is whistling upwind-it's a sheer waste of energy.

I'm too busy. I have no time for worry.

Let's not allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget. Remember "Life is too short to be little."

It is astonishing how quickly we can accept almost any situation -- if we have to -- and adjust ourselves to it and forget about it.

"Be willing to have it so, " he said "Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences of any misfortune."

Teach me neither to cry for the moon nor over split milk.

Obviously, circumstances alone do not make us happy or unhappy. It is the way we react to circumstances that determines our feelings.

We can all endure disaster and tragedy and triumph over them -- if we have to. We may not think we can, but we have surprisingly strong inner resources that will see us through if we will only make use of them. We are stronger than we think.

"Try to bear lightly what needs must be." Socrates

Our life is what our thoughts make it.

Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.

This man made the human and distressing mistake of expecting gratitude. He just didn't know human nature.

I am going to meet people today who talk too much -- people who are selfish, egotistical, ungrateful. But I won't be surprised or disturbed, for I couldn't imagine a world without such people.

About ninety per cent of the things in our lives are right and about ten per cent are wrong. If we want to be happy, all we have to do is to concentrate on the ninety per cent that are right and ignore the ten per cent that are wrong.

The tendency to "seldom think of what we have but always of what we lack" is the greatest tragedy on earth. Count your blessings -- not your troubles.

What lesson can I learn from this misfortune? How can I improve my situation? How can I turn this lemon into a lemonade?

The best things are the most difficult

"Happiness is not mostly pleasure. it is mostly victory"

Forget yourself by becoming interested in others. Every day do a good deed that will put a smile of joy on someone's face.

Remember that unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment. Remember that no one ever kicks a dead dog.

When you face a problem, solve it then and there if you have the facts necessary to make a decision. Don't keep putting off decisions.

如果你有忧虑，就应用威利·卡瑞尔的万灵公式，做下面三件事： 一、问你自己： ;可能发生的最坏情况是什么？ ; 二、如果你不得不如此，你就做好准备迎接它。 三、镇定地想方设法改善最坏的情况。